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The man I'm with right now is a total Gryffindor if you don't get the reference, for shame ; and the sorting hat would know it from across the great hall, not needing to even touch the guy's head. He's all about honor, honesty, sticking by one's word. I'm the opposite of that. I'm a huge cheater luckily he's poly so that fixes that , I lie whenever it seems justified to me which is often , I don't think promises need to be kept just for the sake of keeping them etc.
I really can't fathom why he likes me. I have no idea with this man finds me tolerable. I have actually molded myself to fit him better -- I've told him every awful thing I've ever done and then informed him of the lies I told when he and I first started talking. I've started telling the truth to everyone else.
I tell him he's making me a better person, and I would like to believe it, but I don't think it's true. I think if he died today then I'd immediately stop being the person he loves. I feel sort of guilty because what he sees as a unique experience in his life intense attraction to and love for me that developed into love within the period of a week, after years of not feeling much for anyone since his last love, who was a far better woman than I, passed away is an experience I've witnessed countless men having in response to me.
He just happened to be the one I've fallen for too. What he felt wasn't the special thing. The fact that I felt it back is the special thing. I often feel intense rushes of emotion, but it's been at least five years since I loved someone in a way where I couldn't flip it off like a light switch when someone else shiny came along. And that time was really just me being weak and needy anyway.
Are you sure you are not a Narcissist? Every man falls in love with you, every man adores you, on and on with how amazing you are She's not saying how wonderful she thinks she is, she's explaining her experiences with men who look at her that way. I'm the same way - every guy I've dated since I was 16 has proposed to me and I've never been single for more than a couple of weeks. I shoot pool, fish, I can work on my own cars, I even used to watch football.
I'm a hell of a cook, I can field dress a deer, read a map, drive a stick, shoot a 50cal, bugs don't gross me out, I don't like to shop, etc I'm not one of the girls that guys consider to be bat-shit crazy. In fact I'm still friends with all but one of my ex-boyfriends. However I do have crazy intense emotional swings, I'm extremely insecure although I've learned to hide it and I'm usually the one to end a relationship the moment I sense right or wrong that it's starting to fade.
You can't abandon me if I leave you first - but I'm a monkey who never lets go of one branch until she has firm hold of another. Welcome to functional BPD - great for you but it sucks for me. The only man I've ever felt safe with, and the only one I was willing to marry, is my completely sociopathic husband, God bless his nonexistent little heart. I was just a few days ago Diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder, and put on medication, but my friend was telling me about Borderline Personality Disorder and it seemed to fit me as I read the signs, being abandoned by both my Mother Who has tried to kill me for the last 16 years and my Father who told my mom to tell my family he died of Overdosing and had recently contacted me, I where my emotions on my sleeve, and my life history and almost everything about me I would tell to anyone.
I tend to use people, interact with them, try to manipulate them into telling me there life background and stories, observing them, only to cast them aside very quickly. I go through intense mood swings and I blackout when I get mad or angry. I tend to fixate though on a specific girl I like, they become my all, before I have even asked them out, sometimes before I have even known them for a week. I rely on my anger to push me, I go through intense bursts of hating myself and everyone around me to not wanting anyone to leave my side and becoming exceedingly egotistical.
I have never been scuicidal but I have had scuicides in my family and have refused that option and have rejected it from my life. I have never been "close" to anyone for more than a few months, but blend in very well, liked by most people at my school because I tend to change subconscously depending on who is around me. The only thing that doesn't is my violent and aggressive side.
Can anyone tell me what you think i fit in as? I'd guess eupd its just another name for bpd. My mum left me when I was a kid abandoned me my half bro and my half sis and proceeded to try put both of us up for adoption we ended up living with our dif dads. And my bro did go up for adoption. Luckily her dad was smart wealthy and lived in a big busy happy friendly house with the rest of his family unluckily for me I grew up with my dumb alco father who had fits of rage and did things like make me eat my own sick when he'd force feed me as a kid sorry for the heavy deets and I was v close with his mum thankfully so she balanced things out she kept him under control and I'd spend a lot of time at her house -not many friends- she was my soul mate and all I needed I think that's how I saw it.
Mum meanwhile had 1 more boy with an abusive man and she kept him he's since turned out to be much like me only 5 yrs younger. Got bullied in secondary school just because I was easy to pick on and maybe too loud and annoying sometimes but was still sort of part of the popular group, just the one they sometimes beat up and teased. I'm 21 now and went through a phase of beating up my dad breaking him down mentally in fits of rage but that's the only person I have that kind of anger with. Anyways, Went out with a guy who I now think has socio tendencies and he broke my heart when I realised 2 years in that he had been cheating on me the whole time almost monthly sometimes weekly yet pretending V V convincingly to be a loving boyfriend.
You wouldn't believe the lies and lengths he went to. Cried like a child the first time I caught him out or at least tried don't think I saw tears then when I broke up with him he sent me one hard cold long text with the details of every time he cheated on me. I went into shock and was just glad I'd broken up with him. I had been insanely pathetically jealous and possessive of him though and even lied about being on the pill for 6months.
I've since learned that's an uncool creepy thing to do.. Finally made it to college made loads of new friends started increasing my intelligence which I'd missed out on coming from a homely country nanny and dumb dad. Of course I became an alco and a drug abuser just like my dad f'd it all up and had to drop out. Don't know if u can tell from reading all of that if u bothered but I'm nothing like the female socio this site often mentions bpd's to be but I'm still text book perfect example of one so if u want to get a diagnosis go to professionals both private and public not online forums.
Should mention my bro who is just like me prob gets his personality from not growing up with his dad as I didn't with mum and also just from being around my mum she herself has a dif form of bpd I think-the more dark manipulative type. She also had an eating disorder and smoked occasionally while she was preg with us so that says a lot.
I just recently found out my husband has aspd I realize he would need to want the help or else it would be useless. What I'm trying to figure out is if I should leave or go?
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I love him and want to help him, but I'm so tired of the lies and being hurt emotionaly. I'm just numb at this point, trying to figure out what's tht next step. All personality disorders are treatable. But there is no medication designed to treat these disorders specifically. It will take years of intense behavior modification and therapy and he will have to be totally committed to treatment and willing to accept that he has a real problem.
If he is stay. If he is not go. He was diagnosed as ASPD and he told you? That is some involved mind play if he did. I would suggest that if you have a healthy regard for others and relatively stable "healthy" emotions get out while you can, don't waste your life. Also read up on Cluster B personality disorders- both the traits of those with them and the average traits of those people who end up in relationships with them. Find out what it is that made you want this person and still want them now even though you probably know deep down they don't care about you.
Get help and move on. They cannot change fundamentally, no more than you can, though they can easily make you think this if you are naturally trusting of people and find it hard to understand how somebody could act in such an unhuman way. Unless of course you have cluster B personality traits yourself.
I was involved with a severe sociopath, manipulative and devious in very subtle and shrewd ways though always blatant to anybody personality disorder or otherwise who can seperate fully emotions from thought whenever necessary. You know when somebody is being deceitful when they offer information in a discussion you didn't ask for, when they become defensive when you're not attacking them, - or if they present an "emotion" completely in words in a formulaic manner, almost as if from a script.
For example everytime somebody with ASPD notices you might be suspcious of their devious manipulation and see you're genuinely upset theyll tell you something like "you're really important to me, I need you in my life" and they may say it in exactly the same way in many different situations. Also it may sound over the top and disingenous- emotional overkill. Because they've never felt a true emotion their actions may not entirely fit or feel natural to the situation - unless they are extremely intelligent. The best way is to not look at the person saying it.
Often if you love somebody you see their face and you may melt, you then don't rationally interpret the horrible twsited things the person with ASPD is saying. Try doing this during a heated moment, you may find yourself shocked. It may sound like a totally different person. I hope this is not the case as it sounds like a dreadful condition to have. Can you be ASPD and it be unconscious, as you've fooled yourself over the years? Though I can understand what it feels like to truly feel guilt, remorse, shame, joy, sadness, I have done so under very extreme circumstances, it isn't my natural state of affairs.
I generally feel numb and have many different characters that I interchange unconsciously. I do not really care about others peoples welfare- not that I want to hurt them, but I wouldn't consider their feelings when I'm deciding on what I want to do. Though I do not actively manipulate. I have started to worry lately as I've spent more time with this sociopath. I initially allowed him to manipulate me and went off the rails which I do time to time often on my own and was temporarily vulnerable and played this up to allow him to feel control over me. Once I'd come back round the tables turned as I carried on with the vulnerability even when I wasn't feeling the least bit vulnerable.
It is somewhat amusing to manipulate somebody with ASPD and it is easily done once you know how they operate. It will only ever be a game though. If you have more to get from life then leave him. I am a sociopath magnet, lol, or am I attracted to them I find myself wanting to play his game, while playing my own game to manipulate him back to me Im not sure if hes aware of himself and what he is, but I did tell him I believe he is a sociopath, he did not respond. I since then have been trying a different approach, telling him I miss him and Im sorry if I disappointed or hurt him Everything is via text, he wont respond, only once to say "happy birthday" which I know was just to fuck with me, lol No response to numerous emotional texts, just happy birthday, lmfao, but not, I really am in pain and miss him so much Start valuing yourself, and please don't refer to yourself as "sick and twisted" - male violence doesn't deserve one more minute of your time in the form of self hatred.
Stay away from men and heal yourself, my best advice to you. Well, my name is Ana. Wrecked complete havok, friends, family, bye bye bye Self-destructive but not only towards myself. Wasn't good enough for me. Had to take everyone down with me. I dont have real emotions. They simply arent real. There's an illusion of the world, always as in my life ever since i was a child. It's like the dream world, wtv, where everyone is an eternal child, and everyone is good, and there's no evil in the world and tatata.
Problem was when having to deal with the real world and people and situations that did not fit into my inner world, it was like a punch to the soul. I don't remember being happy as a child.
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I was not mean however I managed to get people in trouble, because if I wanted to really do something, I'd convince everyone to do it, due to the excitment of it being such an awesome idea, and shit would usually hapen. That's what was remotely close to happyness. I wouldn't say I was hypersensitive in my early teens.
Things had to go my way. Or I'd feel like shit about myself. I was a perfeccionist, and a bright kid. And then I started to gain conscience od the world around me. Which I did not have. And I realized I didnt fit. I didnt care about anyone, or anything. I cared about having fun, laughing. My mother has bpd. She controlled my entire life. Everything I did, she chose what I had to study, what I had to dress, the friends I'd get to have. Which had not particullarly bothered me until I started to have that feeling of isolation.
With everyone I was. Suddenly was as if nothing mattered, nothing was funny, nothing nothing. It was like suddenly I had conscience of that. I needed change, I craved for it and I couldn't have it. I looked at myself in the mirror and it was like staring at someone else.
I had no absolute contact with myself. I had been nothing but a pawn until then. That being being because my mother had been the only person allowed inside my inner world. To me she wasn't a person she was like this goddess, this perfect being. And suddenly not alone she wasn't perfect, she didnt fit in my world anymore. So I turned on her. Her, my whole family, my 'friends' who werent friends, I had never developed any close relationships with anyone, was just fun and laughter purposes , I would kick everyone as far away from me as I could.
I wanted to make the world into my world. And if it couldnt, then I'd rather there'd be no world. Basically I couldnt understand reality as it was, and I ran from it. If I had to I'd die before it got to me.
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We wont, and we get it. And if we dont we'll likely die trying. We get insanelly attached to people. Mostly because the image we construct of them does not match reality. I am very subcounscious. I see what I want to see I've managed not to see people in front of me greeting me because I subcounsciously didnt want to. I was for years in a push pull relationship with this guy. He had BPD too. It was not particullarly a good relationship. But I was fucking blind, until he almost destroyed me. Until the point I was crying in a classroom or looking at the computer trying to decide how i'd kill myself of course I told him this xD.
It was good and bad.
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It was that fire that kept it going. Because I actually felt something. Then again, he would break up with me because he suddenly wanted to go chase someone else, I'd broke up with him for the same reason And we kept getting back.
But it was getting harsher everytime. So I decided to quit for good. Must have been the person I loved the most in my life. Because I met him in his narcissistic phase and we were both smoking a lot of weed so all his crazy ideas appeared normal to me. Plus I had this idealization of him where he really was smarter and more awesome than anyone else.
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I was in love for months, we lived together, everything fine And then I started to need change again. Said 'Hey, lets move' he said 'ok'. Then he started to think and think and think and to scare himself out of his brains and one day I called him and he pushed me away saying he thought we should just be friends. Of course by then I had already knew what he'd been doing and that he was going to see someone else, so I just told him all I knew.
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He couldnt speak anymore xD Well the girl tried like hell to be like me, he manipulated her into it so I won anyway xD Still. I suffered like hell. I didnt know that kind of suffering was even possible. Only my parents knew because I had nightmares every night. Woke up crying looking for him in my sleep. No one else knew. I hate it when I feel this bad. I hate myself for letting me get this attached to someone. But on the other hand If I dont, I wont get to go to heaven, and float around in love while the illusion is good. It's more of an egoistic thing, I think.
I just paint it pretty. I do it for myself, to make myself feel. Then it's like a drug. You want more and more and more, and when you dont have it its like the worlds coming to an end. He painted himself as perfect. Now we have the good part of this envolvment We want to create the illusion that bad But are also very mistrusting. Especially when we don't pick up any vibes xD He was great with words, touch and lies. I would have fallen except It seemed too programmed, too perfect. So I pretended I had fallen.
He started to not care enough to lie that well and forgot what lies he'd told. His manipulative attempts were too drastic and killed the illusion. Was a good run though. He'd get me to his side, or at least falling a little into it, but I'd make him fuck up. So the illusion faded.
Then he'd come to continue the game, and I'd illude again a little. Until I couldnt illude myself anymore. Which was a bummer cause now I ain't feeling shit again. Still, this was a good run. Great emotional trainning ahah. I could feel but not get attached though, what else can a girl ask for?
I let people see what I want them to see. If I want to have fun with someone, I'll be seen like the funniest coolest girl ever. If I hate someone, I'll make them hate me. If I want someone to love me, they will. If I want someone to feel sorry for me, they will too. I test people though first. I show them what they want from me and test them through it. Bate them, watch how they behave, if they're behaviours match each other and the words. How likely will I be to get what I want That sort of thing. Its kind of like a recently developped defense mechanism. We had an intense emotional bond from the start.
Were very empathic towards each other. That's why it felt so bad to let go. Because the odds of that happening again are remote. Well it was the exact opposite. I couldnt read him so he intrigued me. After realizing I couldnt read him because there really wasnt much in the back to read in the first place There was nothing there for me to find.
I like the finding. And I like emotions. Unconvering other's inconscient mind piece by piece and putting it in front of them. Understanding different heads from mine Preferably deep complex minds. Its more of a challenge. It's how I've been keeping myself busy and emotional. We got conection and understanding with self and others covered. And I think I've took a big step here towards emotional control.
Cause its like cats, its a strong, rapid emotional impulse and it escalades like hell and it usually takes you. I compare myself to a boat in the sea. The tide is calm. Most of the time. Until you get bored like crap and want to stirr it. And when it stirrs, from all the calmness, the waves hit the boat like a fucking tsunami and destroy you. At least they do at first. From there you either apply your amazing manipulative capacities on your self or keep having identity crisis and having to rebuild the boat over and over again. You need to maintain the inner struture of the boat intact.
And you cant do it because you provoke tsunamis, by incresing the illusion infinetely. You can adjust your sails, morphing yourself a little to the tide But you cant let the tide take you. You can stirr the water and you should. But only to a level you can handle. That's all for my conclusions after all these years. But I'm going to fucking make this disease an impulse forwards instead of an endless loop.
I know I have the ability to. Just have to oblige myself to, instead of trying to change the world and others, trying to change the mind of the inner raw me. I'm trying to make sense of all my past and dealing with all the shit I should have dealt with these years, creating a rational positive though regarding it in my head and dogmatizng it and never thinkking about it anymore. And never forgetting all about it and get blinded by the moment. I ordered a love spell and before it was completed, I heard from my husband.
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I'm nowhere near adequate enough for that haha if you met me you'd understand straight away. Borderline has many many subtypes and to say its on the lacking empathy spectrum alone is a mistake. I believe what was meant by this article and in general the notion of Borderline as the female presentation of psychopathy or sociopathy is that there is a small but distinct percentage of female borderlines that are also psychopaths.
Very little research has been conducted to determine the validity of this hypothesis, however, and in fact I am currently conducting such research at the psychiatric hospital where I work. Such assumptions must be supported with empirical data if we are to know the truth. One of the hallmarks of BPD is the shifting of mindsets over time with a denial of previous mindsets at the time one is dominant.
This is called identity diffusion In the case of the BPD, these are described in Deconstructive Dynamic Psychotherapy a psychodynamic, evidence-based treatment for BPD as the guilty perpetrator mode I'm bad and beyond redemption. No one should care about me or help me. In this fourth mode, borderlines are emotionally detached, engage in self-soothing behaviors, and often take advantage of others egocentrically. In this state of mind they do resemble sociopaths. But it is not the presence or absence of these traits that defines the disorder, but the rapid and sudden shifting from mode to the other.
Sociopaths have more stability to their personality traits, rather than shifting from one to the next in response to interpersonal triggers. Thats just different mindsets of the SAME stream of person. You people need to take a good read of the European diagnostic manual and understand it before you talk about bpd. You need to take the term eupd into the equation too!! Cluster b personalities are "dramatic personalities" too not "lacking emotion". Bpd can swing either way.. Same Day Payday Loans.
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I was diagnosed with seasonal depression and dysthymia in the past. My current diagnoses is major depression and generalized anxiety disorder. I've taken verity of medications to help with depression even ones that are used for other health problems that has shown to help depression. Most of my family members I have shut out of my life since I don't have time for their drama or favors they ask for and don't seem to return.
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